Had lunch today with a 20-something friend of mine who’s been trying to get his boss to review him for several months now, but with no success. He finally got a meeting scheduled for this afternoon, but at the last minute, got put off again for some insignificant reason.
I can’t believe it.
OK, I guess I can. Sadly, it’s all too common. That’s been the case in almost every company I’ve worked for or consulted with over the past 25 years. And I’ve been guilty of putting off reviews myself before. I was either too busy, didn’t think it was important, wasn’t focused enough, or was simply too fearful to have the tough conversations about what was needed to succeed in our organization.
That’s the worst thing we can do as leaders. What kind of message does that send? That we don’t care? That they’re not valued? That we don’t know what the hell we’re doing ourselves?
Our people aren’t idiots. No matter what their job title or duties, everyone wants to know how to succeed and either thrive, or at the very least, how to meet an acceptable standard for their performance.
Occasionally, you’ll get the person who doesn’t care. In that case, they should be out the door immediately before the achievers wonder why they’re trying at all.
And for the achievers who want to know how they can bring value, there’s nothing more demotivating than a boss who won’t tell them what’s expected and how they can succeed and bring value.
As leaders, we all want to achieve our goals. That’s not going to happen with a demotivated or unfocused staff. Even if it’s hard news, tell them how they can meet or exceed your expectations. They can deal with it. They’re even more likely to try harder when they know how high the bar is set.
It’s in your best interest, too. You can’t do it alone. And you won’t succeed without a motivated staff willing to do their very best for you and a common goal.


